I've been meaning to update our plans for the farm but just kept thinking let's wait and see how things go.
But 2020...
... a dumpster fire for everyone.
Things are not immune here either.
First, a very dear coworker had a tragedy. Her husband died unexpectedly while out of town on business. Only 45. It kind of took the wind out of our sails because we are a close knit group at the office, we're like family and what hurts one hurts all.
Just heartbreaking.
Then, as some of you know, 2nd Man was laid off. It's been a while now. More than six months. With the pandemic it's just SO hard to find a job because there are so many looking and with his background, companies if they are even hiring, are just being very specific, more so than in any year past. I am employed and my job is secure. The unemployment though has run its course and so now we use savings for needed expenses. Thankfully, we have it but of course that was intended for doing things at the farm and this year was the original plan for that to start.
Well needless to say, that didn't happen. We are in conserve/saving mode. We had narrowed it down to a complete remodel and our backup was a prefab cabin type building (and that could still happen).
Have you ever watched one of those HGTV type shows where they gut down to the studs and then redo it? That's what we have plans for that were drawn up. Removing the dining room/mudroom addition and adding on a larger eat in kitchen and then remodeling the other rooms. We owe so little on the house and land, it just made sense to get a home improvement loan and completely remodel. We have a couple of contractors that came well recommended and will just need to visit with them when we get ready. We hope that will happen next year but at this point it's the furthest thought for us.
We have a backup plan of a modular cabin type home but that would involve demolition of what we have now and then figuring out how to get the new cabin onto the property. That adds a lot to the expense.
In the short term, we may get a couple of new window units that do both cooling and heating just to be able to keep it comfortable to go visit and have a place to get away until we get to the remodeling phase. That would at least make it nice this Winter and next Spring Summer but then again, spending money right this moment on that seems like less of a plan until we have a better outlook for the job future. We don't have to go out there this Winter so maybe next Spring we can get some cooling units for the hotter months. We're still staying in the apartment, it will be easier to find a job here and if either of us needs to work from home, it's easier at the apartment.
And lastly, the latest "2020 Sucks" news...
...we just found out about this a couple of weeks ago but I couldn't post until everyone in their family knew; 2nd Family is getting divorced.
Sigh.
We've known them for 20 years, well, that's for both of us, I've known them for almost 30 years. She is moving away, out of town, as is their daughter. We weren't sure what was going to happen with their property. We share the first part of their driveway and also share the well. He is going to stay there, at least for now we believe. He loves it out there but again, who knows what the future will hold for that.
That means a new well and a driveway cleared from the road will need to be on our shortlist once we can afford to do that. Again, not until some time next year, it just depends on how things go with him staying there by himself. If things seem stable for him (and for us) we'll work on the house first and then the other things.
I took this picture the other day and put this quote on there to remind us of why we have done this. Having a small place in the country to soothe our souls has been our dream for years and we're not about to let some crappy year ruin it for us. We'll get there eventually, a few bumps in the road along the way, but we'll get there. Until then, we have a wonderful property to go to and plant and plan and figure out fun things to do.
As dark as it seems now, the future is brighter!
Come on 2021, PLEASE be better than 2020.