Our hearts are broken...
...yesterday, we had to, for the third time in our 26 years together, make that decision, awful for us, but the right thing for him. It never gets easier. Sigh.
In the last two weeks, we noticed he was slowing down. He was more lethargic but had a great appetite and was still getting around well, albeit slower. Then, in just the span of about a day and a half, he stopped eating and started drinking only water, and constantly drinking it. Then yesterday, he was barely able to even drink water. He was using his foot and pulling the water out and then would drink what he could but stopped using the litter box. We have been down this road before and we understood...his body was quickly shutting down.
We got him all his favorite food and laid down on the floor with him to feed him by hand, but he would not eat anything at all. He would just lay down wherever he ended up because he was becoming too weak to stand. This all happened in less than two days.
Yesterday, he managed to look at us and meowed and we both knew that he was telling us it was time to let him go. He was tired and he was ready. We took him to a 24/7 emergency vet nearby. He had a very peaceful passing. The vet and tech people were SO sweet and caring. We had a private room with dim lights and a comfy couch and we were there with him, holding him, petting him, giving him lots of kisses on his head and kept telling him what a good boy he had been to us. He was the best boy. The bestest cat ever.
He was known by many names around here:
My deepest sympathy on your loss. He was a beautiful cat and so very lucky to have found you two. He may no longer be at your sides, but he’ll always be in your hearts.
ReplyDelete20 years is a very long cat life ... my heart kinda skipped a beat at your headline!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry 😞 ... Hobart has been a part of my life for as long as I have been coming to your blog! 💔
Oh, I'm so sorry. It never gets easier letting go.
ReplyDeleteHeather
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have always enjoyed the pictures of Hobart and I can tell he was a special boy.
ReplyDeleteAww, sweet boy, you were loved . So very sorry for your loss, it;s heart breaking.
ReplyDeleteJo
So very sorry that Hobart is gone but y'all gave him the best things of life: food, shelter, safety, and constant love. You also honored his time to go. A heartbreak, indeed.
ReplyDeleteHugs!
I am so sorry for your loss. I loved Hobart and enjoyed seeing him. I know your pain. 💔😢
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to read this. It is so hard to lose our fur buddies. Hobart was gorgeous and you both gave hi a wonderful long life. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteSuch a wonderful and handsome good boy. I am so very sorry for your loss of Hobart. You were fantastic pet parents all through his long life and for that you should be proud. We will always remember him and miss his Sunday posts. Hugs to you both.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to read this, I have been through this a few times and it hurts when they tell you it is time. You don't want them to give you their finial look of goodbye, but you know it is best for them, but it still tears your heart in half. I hurt for you and all of your readers, we all loved the pictures of this wonderful boy.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry I always look forward to Hobart sitting in the sun, but he's happy and running free now
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you both. He is no longer in pain and lives on in your heart and memories.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. I had been wondering how Hobart was going to take the move to the new house. Now he can just watch y'all while he sits on a soft, puffy cloud.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sad and sorry ...clicked on looking for the Good Food and Hobart Sunday and so sadly read of your great loss. He was a beautiful friend and you gave him a wonderful life. I've been there and know how hard it is.
ReplyDeleteTake care, know you did the best for him,and know he knew you would
Mary
I come here every Sunday to read good food and Hobart. My heart went into my throat when I saw the title today. I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been on this earth many years and have had many furry babies share my life. It is so hard to lose them but I take comfort in the fact that they blessed me with their love. It doesn't make the hurt any easier but it does help some. Hobart lived a good long life and he was loved. He isn't far away. He will remain close to you until you see him once again at the Rainbow Bridge. Your hearts will heal but you will never forget.
ReplyDeleteGuys, Fiona here, my heart aches for you both. I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteSympathies to you both. He was well loved.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about Hobart. It is a difficult time for you both but Hobart will always be a part of you.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. I will miss reading about him. You've loved him well, right to the end.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to read that Hobart has gone. He had a long and happy life with you and was much loved.
ReplyDeletei am just dying here. super big hugs guys. i just can't stand it. these are the ones that keep us going.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry. It’s heartbreaking to say goodbye to such a sweet darling. Hobart had the best life with y’all. He felt your love and caring every day. He will be waiting for you someday at Rainbow Bridge. Love and hugs to you both.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you had to say goodbye to HOBART, he had the best life with you both.
ReplyDeleteYou have SO many photos of him, you could make a collage to hang up in your new home. 🦘🦘🦘🦘
My heart breaks for you both. In 2006 we moved to Australia with our 7 cats. We all enjoyed our lives together for years, Down Under, but we had the same experience you have had. The time eventually comes when each feline was ready to go. It’s heartbreaking, and I send you hugs and deepest sympathy. Fortunately, these lovely creatures never leave our hearts…they are family there, forever. Love, Dianne
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. Hobart was a great cat, well loved and cared for. (I read your blog but think I've only commented once before.)
ReplyDeleteHey two men, I can't imagine the heartbreak you are experiencing. Hobart was loved not only by the two of you but by I dare say hundreds of us out here. We feel your loss and we will send you love and light and healing. Someday, you will be reunited but he'll always be there in spirit, along with his two brothers. Just remember you are loved. Janie V
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for you both, it can be heartbreaking to loose a beloved companion. There are beautiful memories and photos to ease the pain. Carol
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss. They give us years of love and then break our hearts. But it's all worth it.
ReplyDeleteSorry, that was me above.
DeleteI have followed your blog and Hobart for years and have saved all his pictures to my computer. I am so very sorry for your loss..it was as if he belonged to all of us that read your blog. I was already thinking how he would enjoy the new house with all the windows where he could watch everything going on outside. Tears for you guys.
ReplyDeleteI'm heartbroken for you. He's been such a wonderful feature on your blog, such a handsome guy. This kind of news is always the saddest.
ReplyDeleteMy heart caught in my throat and I was startled when I read the name of the post. I knew the end would happen, but never planned for it to actually happen. You were both good parents and treated him so gently at the end. Take time to grieve. I know you will miss him.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about Hobart. You have been wonderful caretakers to him, and he has been a source of companionship, love, amusement, and joy to you.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Hobart was so loved by not only you but by his many fans from your blog.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteYour grief is shared by your readers. May warm, happy memories fill the void.
ReplyDeleteGood bye Hobart. Now all I'll see is what your humans make for suppers on Sundays. How boring, you were always the whole post for me. We will miss you. Barb
ReplyDeleteMy deepest condolences. We've had to make that decision more than once and it never gets easier. I love your posts on Hobart and will miss his appearance in the blog.
ReplyDeleteSincere condolences. I will truly miss my weekly dose of #unspoiled Hobart! RIP sweet boy.❤
ReplyDeleteYou made me cry. It’s very, very hard to say goodbye to a four footed friend. I know. I have been there many times. That time is slowly approaching for one of my two and I am dreading it. Rest easy Hobart. ❤️
ReplyDelete:( :( :( (Because they don't make the right words....)
ReplyDeleteI've followed you for years and never commented. Now I must. So sorry for your loss. We know how broken hearted you are right now. We'll all miss our Hobart posts. Virtual hugs for you both from Belgium.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that we shall not have the lovely Hobart to end each post.
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you two! He was such a part of your lives and your blog! I'm sad they he never got to move to the new home with you. Bless you as you take the time to mourn him properly. [[[hugs]]]
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. This is always so very hard. Sending comfort and condolences to you both. I have long admired Hobart and will miss him. I know there is a sunny spot for him over that bridge.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss. He had a long and happy life with you. Hobart trusted you to do the last loving thing for him and relieve him of his distress. You did not let him down.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for the loss of sweet Hobart. I hope time will help this sadness pass.
ReplyDeleteGuys, my heart is broken for you both. I loved Hobart from afar and I'm sad but happy that he is resting and playing and laying in the sun spot recharging his batteries. Be well and take care of each other. Jon
ReplyDeleteWe're heartbroken. A part of Hobart belonged to us too, he captured our hearts and we will miss him. As Jon said above, take care of each other, it will be different for you but know Hobart is with his brothers watching you guys and waiting to be reunited again someday. Vicki
ReplyDeleteMy Condolences for your loss from the UK. He had the best life a cat could have wished for and I hope that brings you some comfort
ReplyDeleteMy condolences. Mr Hobart was just simply the best, and he could not have been more loved and he know it even though he was not spoiled <3
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you guys. I know how hard this has been for you both.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about Hobart. I have been there and it is horrible. I know he was a much loved little dude. 😥
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry for your loss of dear Hobart. Those of us who love our pets know the pain you must be going through. I have followed your blog for many years and this is my first comment, for Hobart, who was definitely SPOILED. Take care of yourselves!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. He was well loved and will leave a big gap. My thoughts are with you both.
ReplyDeleteI have so loved reading about your best boy Hobart and he was so loved . It was good to read about a calm, peaceful passing for him in you're arms Jane x
ReplyDeleteI am just seeing this. I am so sorry to hear about Hobart. I will surely miss his weekly updates. 😢
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